Letter to Reiko #71 Celebrating Kyrian's Minionful Birthday and Thoughts abt You

Saturday, May 28, 2016 0 Comments A+ a-

Hi Ko!!

We had a good time during Kyrian's Minion birthday party right? You will also try to "talk" to this minion and kept looking at it. It is great that you still have some of your innocence left and that made it much more fun for you! :)




Eating well at the party!


And Reagan shared some of his snacks with you.


Must you hug him for that?! :)


Present for the birthday boy!


My two babies! Haha!


Hey Ko, this couple of weeks I let you attend ballet classes (more of rhythm and movement at this age) and you said you liked it and the next day you wanted to go again though it was a weekly one. But... You don't follow teacher's actions or movements. You would just walk around and jump by yourself. This made mummy really confused as I don't know if you are really enjoying it or not. And I have learnt lately that my girl is actually not as sociable outside though you would sing and prance around loudly at home. In fact, you are actually quite serious! Hm but generally thank you for being such a good and wonderful girl. Sometimes when Mummy gets exasperated with kor, you will help me tell him "can you be a good boy?". Of cos you also have your difficult ways and tantrums and also like to "scold" your friends as you would proudly tell me after school sometimes. Oh dear. :) Have fun growing up my dear.

Letter to Immanuel #71 A Minionful Birthday and Your Exciting School Trips

Saturday, May 28, 2016 0 Comments A+ a-

Hi Imm!

I love to see you getting dirty and smiling away. You came home with really muddy shoes and clothes in your bag after your hiking trip. Luckily we have a helper now! hehe! When you are good you are just veryyyy good. But when you are not, sad to say you just drive me crazy. Cos you are just so unpredictable, esp these days, Mummy found it a challenge again.



This is your gun that you made using the new game Mummy bought, called "pull the string". You just like doing all these things. :)


Happy moments at Kyrian's party, pretending to be trapped in the bouncing castle!



Hitting the pinata, waiting for lots of goodies to pour out!



After a couple of hours, you warmed up and really enjoyed yourself!


The Lovely Family! Happy Birthday to Kyrian!! However you  didn't want to take any photo with the minion.. hehe.. I guessed you outgrew it too as you will say "there is a man inside". Where has the innocence gone to??



After that we went for our playdate with Karlson. You really love playing with him lots, cars, pretend play etc. I realised that after you went for Kyrian's party, you have outgrew  most of the toys and just kept looking for the Transformers toy you played with months ago. You started to get difficult and poor Aunt Ade had to hunt for the toy just for your sake. :( It is at times like these Mummy doesn't know what to do with you!


One of your outings with your school. These days I realised that you really love going to school. I know like almost more than 5 of your friends name, unlike in Cape Town when I only know 2 because you will keep talking about them. Made me realise that you are really into friendships now. The teacher also mentioned that you can get very rowdy with the boys!




Another of your school outings was on a hiking trip. Mummy absolutely loves the idea though it kinda burnt a hole in the wallet. $80. Gosh!! ( I also wanted to use WAAALAOOOO!) Hehe.. but all parents wish that their children can have a good time and Mummy knows you will enjoy these kinda trips more with friends than with me. Because with me you become a whining machine.





Imm, Mummy is really soooooo angry with you these 2 weeks! Esp last week when I had to drag you home from Haroobee without even attending your class because you kept crying as you lost your tic tac! And furthermore, it was your third crying spree for that day. The first time was you didn't want to go out with me from Ma-ma's house. Mummy got sooo frustrated because I had to spend time and energy to get you out of the house or you will just play ipad the whole day there. SiGH. Sometimes Mummy just doesn't know what to do with you. I guessed it is the perils of parenthood. I wish I can wriggle out of it sometimes. *sad face* Yes this is one of the moments I feel sooooo tired and exhausted. But things will get better somehow and I know my boy has a good heart. I just wish these tantrums will vanish soon!

Crafts #13 A Rainbow Sun Learning Our 11-20

Friday, May 27, 2016 0 Comments A+ a-

I haven't had much time teaching Ko simply cos I had a hard time trying to get Imm to focus and once he is seated there, I will start to do more... and more... and more work till he gets tired (which is pretty fast actually). He writes really slowly but if I am not seated there, he tends to fool around and gets distracted. Sometimes I get to teach both of them (like a tuition group) but not all the time. And I try to have fun while we learn. One good thing is that both of them love crafts! So today, I focus on Ko while we do our art.

Materials needed:

1) Paper plates
2) Yellow paint
3) Wooden pegs with Written Numbers
4) Colourful strips of Paper


First we started on the painting. Imm founded the paint too watery and started to cry. Haha...


He enjoyed twirling the paper around though. I could not take much pics of Ko as most of the time I am helping her... :)



After twirling, we would stick the strips of paper to the back. And we would paste eyes! I drew a smiling face for her.


After that, I would go through with her 11-20 and asked her to peg it in order. Although she could recite the numbers, she still has difficulty recognising. If you showed her "12" she would not know what is it. I always believe in having fun while learning.


Imm preferred to do a sad face. :|


Tada! Happy with their work!


Letter to Reiko #70 Beautiful memories of Beautiful Flowers Plus Nature in Playeum

Thursday, May 19, 2016 0 Comments A+ a-

Hii Ko!!

I am going to put this as the first picture as I really like this pic of you! To me you are always such a sweet and gentle girl. Though you make me angry more these days cos of ur whining (following in Kor's old footsteps, sigh) but when you see my face change, you would say sorry to me. And I know you mean it. You just can't bear to see people upset and like all things wonderful and pretty.


And yes! We made beautiful things indeed. Like these marshmallow flower cookies during our baking this week. :)


Sprinkling the decor... there was once you just slipped off your chair and tip the sprinklings over. Mummy can only gasp in horror. But otherwise it was good. The cookies were easy to make... just mix butter and cookie mix together before putting in to bake. The marshmallows are cut into small pieces and the sprinkles will stick to the sticky side. Such creative ideas :) Love it!



And you just wanted to eat them!


How come your face change? Hehe


Here is our short recap of pics at playeum on Sun morning!


Aunt Ade made this nice pic for us so I am going to put it up here.


A pic with Aunt Isa!


You love to look at Kor doing his building activities.


Making a small home for the insects using leaves and flowers....


What is Ko so intrigued about?


Walk walk with Kyrian while Kor messes with my camera... hrumphh...


3 kiddies!


Hip Hip Hurray!

Letter to Immanuel #70 Our Playeum Date with Playmates and Our Secret Cake

Thursday, May 19, 2016 0 Comments A+ a-

Hiiee Imm!!

My strong boy!! Hehe... this is a picture of you at Playeum. I am glad we managed to come together with Aunt Isa and Aunt Ade... we actually arranged the week before but Aunt Isa cannot and Aunt Ade also cannot at the last min... Usually I don't like to change plans and try to stick to it since I promised you our outing but that week, I decided to postpone one time so we could all go together! :) And I am glad we did! There you are holding the heaviest watering can and playing your part to take care of nature.... (hope it is not drowing in love) :)


"Wa!" Ko was trying to create her masterpiece to make a little house for the insects using petals, dried leaves etc.


This place was actually totally dark. We had to help the spider to make its web.


You also liked this cave very much as it is a secluded corner for you to make your transformer cave.


You also enjoyed making a mini tent with Uncle Yang. He taught you how to tie! But Mummy forgot to take a pic of you and him.



Aunt Isa also did together with you!


And you also played a game with Ko: She would crawl inside and you would move it away... gee....


 My little entomologist.



It's a bug hotel! How nice...:)


A pic with Mummy!


That day was a fruitful day as we also went baking. You wanted to go after seeing the pics of me and ko baking and I know how much you would love it. So despite feeling super tired from our Playeum, Mummy brought you along for baking. There were soooooooo many people during this session, unlike the first 2 sessions that I went with Ko. The recipe was a little harder and I am glad I went with you, hahah... more challenging! It was a hidden heart loaf recipe.. means the heart shape is hidden inside the cake. For starters, Mummy had wanted to try this but did not have the time to do so.. now I finally know! We had to bake a thin layer first and use a cutter to cut out the heart shapes... but before we could do that, you started to nibble...


So now the heart shapes are ready and we had to put inside the batter.


After arranging the heart shapes in a row, we covered with the rest of the batter before putting it into the oven to bake again...............Still eating!

 
Time to sprinkle some icing sugar.


Tada!


To summarise our baking experience again..:)


Mummy really loves spending time with you and doing little activities together. This week, you seemed to have mellowed a little and have less tantrums. Thank you boy. And you were more ok with me leaving the bedroom after ten minutes of accompanying you and not till you fall asleep... Mummy is always so impatient with that because I also craved for my me time. It can be really tiring handling both of you in the evenings. Thank you boy for trying and still working hard to get your points after 1 mth. So far this is the most successful reward chart cos we are working towards your second reward after getting your first tobot and I know you want your scooter next. Sometimes Mummy compare you with other kids cos you can be quite difficult when you are in your moods but you can be the sweetest boy too, always thinking for me and telling me you do something yourself so Mummy will not be tired. Thank you for thinking of me. When I look at older boys, they seemed to have lost their innocence and I wish you will always have such a sweet heart even when you are older. But for now, I will always put building of memories as my first priority. In a way, it reminds me of scaffolding. The memories will act as a base and foundation to create the relationship. One day these memories are over but our "building" will remind us of the hard work we have put in each day to live our lives out in our relationship.